Every single day we wake up with the hope that the day will be better- even slightly than the day before.
With this tingling hope, we carry on with our daily activities preparing our minds for the miracle to occur.
Sometimes, this miracle occurs. The day fulfils our hopes and desires as it unfolds to be pleasant. Being honest, we can testify that these miracle days come and go. We may never truly master the art of predicting what a good day would look like, when it would occur.
To keep from this uncertainty, it is important that we take deliberate steps in creating the pleasant days that we want.
But how one possible create the happy day that they want? A Thomas might ask,aren’t we merely men playing in the courtyard of the supreme beings?
Not to keep you from further wondering, there might be three behaviourial adaptations that can assure in a large percentage, the outcome of a perfect day:
The use of ‘positive vibe’ may come off as banal, but the truth lies in the power of positive attitude and speech. The Christain faith teaches this kind of positive approach to life as faith.
The Christain Holy Book says,
”faith is the assurance of things hoped for.” teaching that the ability to remain positive at all times has its own rewards.
The idea of saying calm has been hugely underrated. Yoga lessons teach individuals to take deep breathes hile meditatng, while music coaches prep singers to inhale through the diaphram.
In more than usual cases, it is panic that causes death. Deaths caused by panic attacks, stampede etc are example of ways figeting .
While it may seem absurd demanding that an anxious or frigthened remain calm but it’s simply important. Emaining calm during anxiety of sudden events makes for more individal assertion.
Chances that you actually listen to an average of 5 people on a daily basis is as much as the sun setting. Leading busy lives means that everything outside of work and the heavy multitasking of a modern individual will rarely get an individual’s complete attention.
In translation, this means that while engrossed with work, it is averagely impossible for an average individual to effectively listen to others.
Communication forms an important aspect of human development whether individually or collectively. Effective communication characterized by listening and speaking will be defected when one party in the conversation fails to listen.
Paying attention to everything around us will give clarity in thoughts, forming opinions, making decisions and taking directives.
Asmuch as we’d expect rocket science theories in creating the perfect day we crave, it’s always really the little things that do matter.